Today as I was driving home, there was a huge traffic jam in my community, a suberb just north of Atlanta. All of the roads within blocks from the square in all directions were tangled up with congestion. I was on a road just a few cars from a RR crossing, which should have been a fine route home, except for the fact that the train was sitting at a dead stop.
What to do? Which route to take? Do I wait on the train? If so, will it be a terribly long wait? As I sat and processed all this, trying not to get stressed out, many commuters behind me had already begun to make their decision and were turning around. I was hesitant to do this because as I looked in my rear view mirror, I saw that all the roads were blocked. So, I chose to sit and wait. 5, 10, 20, 25 minutes while cars all around me chose to perform u-turns. I open both windows and allow the summer air to blow into my car. I hear shouts of the children at a nearby church playground, and I wait on this train that may never move.
As I continued to wait, I thought about how in life we have a lot of paths we can choose. I was reminded of Robert Frost’s memorable poem, penned in 1916:
The Road Not Taken
“Two roads diverged in a yellow wood, and sorry I could not travel both and be one traveler, long I stood… I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference.”
Now in my sixth decade of life, it seems that we are faced with more news than usual, and the news, unfortunately, is not always good. Maybe it is because our circle of friends has broadened as we have grown. Perhaps it is because we have greater knowledge, greater wisdom, shall I say, about what can come about as life progresses.
When unexpected, unsettling news would come to us, my Mama always said, “Let’s have ‘guarded optimism’, and let’s see what the morning brings.”
Mama also said, “Let’s not borrow trouble from tomorrow.”
As Pastor Ike said last Sunday, “I don’t want this season to be the Twilight of my life, I want it to be the Highlight of my life.
It would do our hearts good to consider what path we will take when faced with difficult news. We can collapse into nothingness…and if we do that for a bit, it is understandable. We can decide to take the path of courage amidst trial and follow down that path with encouragement from God and friends who care. WE might choose anger and stay stuck there for awhile. And sometimes news will just cause us to sit and wait until it sinks in. If we really stop and think about it, we can even choose to look for the upside of a situation. We can always, yes, always, choose our response to our circumstances.
Charles Swindoll’s message on Attitude is one I reflect on often:
“The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company…a church….a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past…we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude…I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you…we are in charge of our attitudes.”
As I waited for the train to move, an elderly gentleman, a pedestrian, walked over to my car and instructed me on how, in his opinion, I should turn around and find a new route. And I did…arriving home in the next few minutes.
Which path will you and I choose in the days ahead? None of us are promised tomorrow.
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