What Is It Like To Be Ninety? Check Out This List


What is it like to be ninety? Though my Daddy lived to be age 93, in my late fifties now, I honestly have no idea what it is like to be ninety years old…

I enjoyed talking to a friend of mine at a Christmas Open House all about the aging process. My friend, Gerry, who is in her seventies told me that an Orthopedic Surgeon friend of hers told her this: “If you wake up and you’re not in pain, you’re dead.” We had a good laugh over that and I have to admit I have repeated it a time or two for more chuckles. It’s a known fact that things tend to hurt more as we age.

Teach us to realize the brevity of life, so that we may grow in wisdom. Psalm 90:12 NLT

As long as I am healthy, I hope to see my ninth decade. Even though I am not yet a Grandmother, that would be pretty cool to not only be a Grandma, but to also have a chance to be a Great-Grandma! Very few of us are blessed with this privilege. It is truly remarkable that George and Barbara Bush reached their 70th wedding anniversary earlier this month.  That is a lot of living!

I recently ran across a list of 42 life lessons 90-year-old Regina Brett of Cleveland, Ohio said that life has taught her. While I don’t have the space to list them all, I picked some of my favorite lessons:

  • Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.
  • When in doubt, just take the next small step.
  • Pay off your credit cards every month.
  • Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.
  • It’s okay to let your children see you cry.
  • Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present. Youth is the time to study wisdom, old age is the time to practice it.” Jean-Jacques Rousseau
  • Don’t compare yourself to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
  • If a relationship has to be secret, you shouldn’t be in it.
  • It’s never too late to be happy. But it’s all up to you and no one else.
  • Over prepare, then go with the flow.
  • What other people think of you is none of your business.
  • Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
  • Believe in miracles.
  • Growing old beats the alternative-dying young.
  • Your children get only one childhood.
  • If we threw all our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.
  • No matter how you feel, get up, get dressed, and show up.
  • Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it is still a gift.

What might you and I take from this list

and begin to incorporate into our days?

3 thoughts on “What Is It Like To Be Ninety?”

  1. Joan, you are blessed with a wonderful talent of writing and I am so thankful that you are sharing your talent with the world!! These are more exciting words!!! Thanks so much for sharing!!! Garry

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